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गुरु सिंह मे १४ जुलाई २०१५ से ११ ऑगस्ट २०१६ तक .

गुरु सिंह  मे १४ जुलाई २०१५ से ११ ऑगस्ट २०१६ तक रहेगा ।

मेष से मीन राशि के जातक को क्या प्रभाव करेगा वो जाने :

मेष राशि : हर तरफसे लाभ, सुखद अनुभूति का समय।

वृषभ राशि : जमीन जायदाद प्रॉपर्टी मे लाभ, शांती की अनुभूति, संबंध में सुधार।

मिथुन राशि : आगे बढे। अपनी शक्ति को जागृत करे।

कर्क राशि : इस साल भी आनंद ले , शुभ लाभ।

सिंह राशि : अछा समय हर तरह से।

कन्या राशि : शारीरिक ध्यान रखे , हेल्थ पर पूरा ध्यान जरूरी।

तुला राशि : अच्छा समय, नये मित्र मिले – कार्य में सफलता रहे।

वृश्चिक राशि : चारो तरफसे लाभ। बढ़ती का समय।

धनु राशि : मानसन्मान की प्राप्ति ,अच्छे कार्यो की प्रशंशा होगी। आध्यात्मिक उनतिका समय।

मकर राशि : मन की मुराद पूरी न हो शके। भारी समय। इन्वेस्टमेंट सोचके करना होगा।

कुंभ राशि : संभलकर चले , साक्षी बननेसे दूर रहे।

मीन राशि : अच्छा समय है आध्यात्मिक द्रष्टीकोण को महत्त्व दे। ईश्वर पे भरोसा बढाइये।

-डॉ. सुधीर शाह

Shri Narendra Modi – Deserves the Post of Prime Minister of India

Every one has to do their KARMA.
Shri Narendra Modi PM Candidate of BJP, is doing his karma ..
Now people of India has to do their ” KARMA of VOTING ” For this Bhartiya Janta Party.Narendra Modi_1_20140328231044177_20140328232011879_20140328233059383-1

Narendra Modi

Dr.Sudhir Shah

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મારા વિચારો : 

સત્યને જીતવા માટે સમય લાગે છે !
સત્ય હંમેશા એકલું અટુલું રહી જાય છે !!
સત્ય ને સાથ મળતા સમય લાગે છે;
હાલના સંજોગોમાં,
એ. પી. જે. અબ્દુલકલ્લામ તાજો દાખલો છે.
સત્ય જાણવા છતાપણ, તમે કઈ કરી શકતા નથી તે સંજોગ – હાલાત.
સત્ય સત્યજ છે.. છતા સત્ય હંમેશા એકલું અટુલું રહી જાય છે !!
ડો. સુધીર શાહ ના વંદન

ShreeKrishn-Rukmani & ShreeRadhe..

મારા સંશોધનની ડાયરીમાંથી  :

લેણાદેણી જોવાની રીત :

જન્મકુંડળી માં લગ્ન થી લગ્ન કયાં તેના આધારે તમે જાણી શકો કે એકબીજાને કેટલા અનુરૂપ છે કેપછી એક બીજાને કેટલા દૂખદ.
આપણા જન્મલગ્ન થી ૯, ૧૦ કે ૧૧ મેં હોય તેવા લગ્નવાળા નો સંબંધ સ્વીકાર જરૂરથી કરવો.
પરંતુ ૬, ૮ કે ૧૨ મેં હોય તો સંબંધ ટાળવો.
અસંખ્ય કુંડલીઓના અભ્યાસથી સંશોધન કરી શક્યા કે નવ-પંચમ, ત્રિ-એકાદશ, સમસપ્તક, અને ચતુર્થ-દશમ લગ્નો
જીવનમાં શ્રેષ્ટ સફળતા ને પામ્યાં…સફળ રહ્યા…
લગ્નથી લગ્ન ચતુર્થ-દશમ, ચંદ્રથી ચંદ્ર નવ-પંચમ, તેમજ સૂર્યથી સૂર્ય નવ-પંચમ સાક્ષાત શ્રીકૃષ્ણ અને રૂકમણીનો સંબંધ, સાથે
લગ્નથી લગ્ન નવ-પંચમ સાક્ષાત શ્રીકૃષ્ણ અને શ્રીરાધેનો સંબંધ.
ડો. સુધીર શાહ

ChitChat..ચિટચેટ..

મારી પ્રેરણા હું પોતે જ       : જ્યોતિષી ડો. સુધીર શાહ 

મુખ્ય શોખ                  : સંગીત ! બાથરૂમ સિંગર છું , ગુનગુનાવી લવ છું . વાંચન અને ફિલ્મો જોવાનો શોખ ખરો.   પોતાના વિચારો પોતાની રીતે રજુ કરવાનો શોખ પણ. એક સમયે ૧૦૦ ફિલ્મો એકવર્ષમાં જોતો. ફોટોગ્રાફી નો શોખ પણ એટલોજ .

અન્ય શોખ                  : એક સહ નિર્માતા તરીકે તખ્તા પર બાળનાટકો – ” ચીમન ચોટી હાથમાં લોટી ” , ” મનુભાઈ ની મોટર ચાલે પમ પમ પમ ” , ” ધોબી તળાવમાં ટામેટું ” , અને મોટેરાઓ માટે ” મમ્મીનો બોયફ્રેન્ડ ” ,  અને ” કિસ્મત ખેલે ખેલ ”  રજુ કર્યાં.

ફેવરીટ સંગીત અને સંગીતકાર  : જૂની ફિલ્મોનાં ગીતો બહુ ગમે . સંગીતકારોમાં આર. ડી. બર્મન પ્રિય , ગાયકોમાં કિશોરકુમાર ,  હેમંતકુમાર , મુકેશ સૌથી વધુ ગમે. ભજન સંગીત પણ  ગમે .
મનગમતી ફિલ્મો                      : આનંદ , નમક હરામ , મિલી , અભિમાન , ચુપકે ચુપકે , ત્રિશુલ , શોલે , કભી ખુશી કભી ગમ , કભી અલવિદા ના કહેના
પ્રિય લેખક                                : મેં એટલું બધું વાંચ્યું છે કે મારા કોઈ ફેવરિટ લેખક છેજ નહિ . દરેક લેખક મારા મતે સારા છે . છતાપણ ગુણવંત શાહ ગમે.
મનપસંદ વાનગી                      : મારી સાસુના હાથની બનાવેલ સેવ અને બટાટાવડા , પત્ની પ્રગ્ના ના હાથની બનેલ કોઇપણ વાનગી મને પ્રિય .અને હાલમાં વહુના હાથની બનેલી સુરતી ટચ  રસોઈ ગમે.અને હાં મને પોતાને પણ ટેસ્ટી રસોઈ બનાવવી ગમે – ખાસ કરીને  દાળઢોકળી અને દાલતડકા .
મનગમતું પરફૂયુમ                      : મને મારા આત્માની ખુશ્બૂ સૌથી વધારે પ્રિય છે.  છતાપણ દેશી મોગરો , ચંપો , મહેંદી , ખસ , અને જુહી પ્રિય . ગુલાબજળ અને ચંદન પણ .
તમારે માટે સ્ટેસ બસ્ટર શું છે ?   : મેડીટેશન , એકાંતસ્થળ . શાંતિ ની જગ્યા , ભીડભાડ થી દુર , સંગીત , હળવી ધૂન .

પ્રિય પ્રવાસસ્થળ                       : નજદીકમાં  માથેરાન , મહાબળેશ્વર ,

ભારતમાં : દાર્જીલિંગ , સિક્કિમ – ગંગટોક , ખજિયાર , ગોવા , ઋષિકેશ ,  વૃંદાવન ,

પ્રાકૃતિક સૌંદર્ય અને દરિયાકિનારો , કાંચનજંગા ,

પરદેશમાં : સ્વિટઝરલેન્ડ , યુરોપ , માઉન્ટ તિત્લીસ , માઉન્ટ એવરેસ્ટ , સિંગાપોર , મોરેશિયસ .

વીકએન્ડ કઈ રિતે વિતાવવો ગમે ? :  ગમતા વિષયોમાં રસ હોય તેવા પુસ્તકો વાંચું , સંશોધન પ્રવૃત્તિ , લખાણ કરું , મારા બ્લોગ પર લખવું , મારા કુટુંબ સાથે બહાર જઇને ડિનર કરવું ગમે .

પ્રેમ એટલે શું ?                         :  અપેક્ષા વગરનું કર્તવ્ય ,  ભાવના , ઉચ્ચતમ લાગણી ,  સમય  +  સમજ  +  સંજોગ  =  સંતોષ.

તમારા માટે સૌથી મૂલ્યવાન શું છે ?  :  સંબંધ ( સ્વાર્થ વગરનો ).

ટોપ લાઈન                              :  સબ કા ભલા હો.

લોકો તમને કઈ રીતે યાદ રાખે તે ગમે ?    :   ભૂલી જાય તો વધુ સારું  –  પણ કદ્દાચ જો ન ભૂલી શકતા  હોય તો એક  ” ઉમદા માનવી ”  તરીકે  જરૂર યાદ  રાખી શકે.  પરંતુ જે મને જાણે છે ,  તેઓના  ( હૃદય )  આત્મા માં હું રહું છું  કે  પછી તેઓના આત્મા સાથે ભળી ગયો છું.

લોકોની કઈ બાબત તમને નથી ગમતી ?  :   સ્વાર્થીપણું .. છળકપટ .. બનાવટી વર્તણુંક .

તમારો કોઈ આદર્શ અને આદર્શ વ્યક્તિ ? :    હું જે છું .. તેજ મહત્વ ઘણું છે. મારી અંદર જે છે તેને હું જાણું છું .

જિંદગીમાં કોઈ ખેદ ?                          :  કોઈ ખેદ નહી , કારણ ,  કયારે પણ અજાણતા પણ કોઈનું  કંઈ બગાડ્યું નથી – ખોટા ને સાથ આપ્યો નથી .જે કંઈ પણ મેળવ્યું છે તે મેહનત – પુરુષાર્થ – ભાગ્ય થી.

પુનર્જન્મ જેવું  કંઈક હોય તો શું બનવાનું પસંદ કરો ?  :   બસ સંતોષ છે આ જન્મ થી .. ફરીને જન્મ મારો હશેજ નહિ .

ડો. સુધીર શાહ

Samay + Samaj + Sanjog = Santosh

Wrapped up with Samay + Samaj + Sanjog = Santosh

Me and My Samay + Samaj + Sanjog = Santosh

Budee budee, that’s all Samay + Samaj + Sanjog = Santosh

The Top pick.. Samay + Samaj + Sanjog = Santosh

Smart people choose Samay + Samaj + Sanjog = Santosh

Saved by Samay + Samaj + Sanjog = Santosh

I see Samay + Samaj + Sanjog = Santosh in your Future

Dr. Sudhir Shah

Rejecting…(Jan/Pahechan)…

People are rejecting each other, Why ??

People might reject you because they donot know you, they donot know your capabilities and  the fact is,  they might assume that you are just like them and so they think that you canot do what they failed to do !

in normal way, If  he/she  failed to do a certain thing then most likely he/she  will tell you that you canot do it too !

But The Facts are..The Truth are..

1. Some people might reject you if they felt that you are a Threat to them.

2. Some people might put you down out of  Jealousy.

3. Some  may try to Criticize you so that you remain in your comfort zone instead of  doing things that they never did before.

4. After all if anyone were stuck in the system and were following each other like a herd, then they wouldnot want to see someone doing something different, because they will feel extremely Insecured and Frustrated, if  he Succeeded !!.

5. But the major fact is …people rejects you because of their own personal flaws and not because of anything that is related to you…

The fact is always a fact and the Truth is always a Truth.

They donot know you…neither they donot want to know you…They are ener and outer  blind…they donot know your capabilities…!!, they donot have these qualities in them selves.

Remember….Rejecting is not the Master Key….the Real Master Key is Pahechan, who are You !!…

Remember ..selfish people will use you and through you as soon as their work is…!!  , but they donot understand that every one knows their tacttiks, once they experiences…

Important Key : Creat your own Jan/Pahechan….you donot require any Platforms…

Dr.Sudhir Shah

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સ્વાઇન ફ્લૂ

રોગપ્રતિકારક ક્ષમતા અથવા ઇમ્યુનિટીઓછી થવાના કારણોમાં ભય,  ડર,  ઉદ્વેગ, ચિંતા,  વિશાદ, ઇર્શા ભાગ ભજવે છે. આ બધા ને લઇને આપણા શરીર માં અસંતુલન પેદા થાય છે,  જેથી રોગપ્રતિકારશકતી નબળી પડે છે. રોગપ્રતિકારશકતી નબળી ને કારણે કોઇ પણ વાયરસ(વિષાણું) શરીર પર કબજો જમાવે છે.

હાલમાં સ્વાઇન ફ્લૂ વાયરસે દુનીયામાં કબજો જમાવ્યો છે. સામાન્ય રીતે ત્રણે દોષોનું સંતુલન જળવાઇ રહે અને વિષાણું સામે સંરક્ષણ મળે તો સ્વાઇન ફ્લૂ વાયરસ થી પણ બચી શકાય. વૈદક શાસ્ત્રમાં સિતોપલાદિ ચુણઁ અને જેઠીમધ ચુણઁ નો ઉપયોગ દર્શાવ્યો છે. બંન્ને ચુણઁ ને સમાન ભાગે ભેગું કરીને મધ/કે ગાય ના ઘી  સાથે દીવસમાં બે વાર લેવું.

માત્રા : અડધી ચમચી ચુણઁ (3 ગ્રામ) + મધ અથવા ગાય ના ઘી સાથે. (દીવસમાં બે વાર ) 15 દીવસ.

એલચી + લવીંગ  + વરીયાલી નો મુખવાસ જમ્યા પછી જરુર થી લો.

તથા નીયમીત 7  કલાક ની ઉંઘ જરુરી.

પ્રાણાયમ કરો/ કસરત કરો.

ઉપરોકત ચાર બાબતો નો ઉપયોગ શરું કરી દો અને રોગપ્રતિકારક ક્ષમતા વધારો જેથી કોઇપણ વાયરસ થી રક્ષણ મળી શકે.

 

ડો. સુધીર શાહ

Note :

(1) though this is safe medication but take an advice from your physician before taking this.

(2) this is an informative article and please take advice from your Doctor or ayurvedic physician for the treatment.

Flash News : Current projections for the availability of an  H1N1  vaccine in India range from 3-6 months.

 

 

Jan/Pahechan…જાન/પહેચાન…

Janana :  Hu tamane ahiya pan malyoo hatou,

 tyaa pan malyoo hatou,

varamvar kyank ne kyank maltaj rahiye chieye,

atleke hu tamane  janu  tou chouv.

Pahechanana Parantu hu tamane pahechani shakyo nahi !!

  .. ke tame kon chouv ??

“” Jindagi me bahut bar aisa

ho ta hai ke aap kisiko janate to houv,

 parantu usikoo pahechante nahi ho. !! “”

 

Dr.Sudhir Shah

Words and Thoughts…

You have your spiritual self  in your possession. Some time body gets trapped by negative energies, which are the root cause of ailments.  Spiritual therapist channelizes , your energies back on the right track, by venturing deep within yourself.

As, we all individuals are a part of divinity. By invoking the strength of that divinity through the control over one’s own thoughts, one can shape or change one’s life very strongly. One should attempt to root out all negative thoughts from the mind and concentrate on only the positive ones.

The negative thought patterns ailments are anger, criticism and guilt. It is utterly impossible to maintain a healthy body under such distressed condition. For instance, criticism indulged in over long periods will often lead to disease as arthritis/pain of joints.  Anger turns into things that boil and burn and in the long run infect the body and it also leads to heart ailments. Guilt always seeks punishment and leads to all sorts of pain.

Worry is just about the worst form of self-destructive mental activity. Hatred is the most severely damaging mental activity. It poisons the body and the mind and its effects are almost long lasting.  If you have no will to  live, you are unlikely to have a long life. On the other hand, if you intend to live with a positive mind, you will definitely live a long and healthy life. Thus a person who exercises, meditates and thinks positively, is telling his body that he wants to stay healthy throughout his life.

Think of the experiences in life,  that your wish to be fulfilled. And you will find your thought pattern taking real changes. This phenomenon is called metaphysical causation. This describes the power in the words and thoughts to create experiences,  and  explains the connection between thoughts and your physical self.  Remember, a stiff neck is easily indicative of inflexibility in a person to listen to the other side of an argument.

Change your words and thoughts and watch how your life changes. The Important way to control your life is to control your words and thoughts.

But most important is control your tongue along with words and thoughts.

Dr.Sudhir Shah

Solar Eclipse – Surya Grahan 22-7-2009(Part-2)

Dr.Sudhir Shah - Solar Eclipse....

સુર્ય ગ્રહણ ખગોલિય ઘટના છે , આ ઘટનાઓ ની અસર દેશ-દુનીયા-પ્રદેશ પર થાય છે જેને “મેદનીય જ્યોતિષ “માં ગણતરીમાં લેવાય છે.  વ્યકતીગત ગણતરી  “હોરા જ્યોતિષ “માં લેવાય છે. સામાન્યરીતે ગ્રહણની અસર વ્યકતીગત હોતી નથી છતાં સંશોધન કરવું જરુરી છે. વધુમાં સુર્યરાશિને સાયન અને ચંદ્રરાશિને નિરયન પધ્ધ્તીકહે છે. તારીખ  22-જુલાઇ-09 ના થનારા સુર્ય ગ્રહણથી વ્યકતીગત ડરવાની જરુર નથી પરંતુ રાશિ પરત્વે થઇ શકનાર શુભ  ,મિશ્ર, કે અશુભ  ની અસર માં ચંદ્રરાશિ (નિરયન) અનુસાર સંશોધન ને ચકાસવું જરુરી છે માટે સંશોધન ના હેતુથિજ આ વિગતો આપી છે જેની નોંધ લેશો.

ડો.સુધીર શાહ 18.7.2009

Think Positive….

There are no mistakes,

 no coincidences.

All events are blessings

 given to us to learn from.

 

Helping you to stay balanced,

Emotionally and Spiritually

 

Dr.Sudhir Shah

sharing….what i remember….

some where i read this and it touched me, so i would like to share here

 

I asked for Strength…and God gave me difficulites to make me strong.

I asked for Wisdom…and God gave me problems to solve.

I asked for Prosperity…and God gave me a brain and brawn to work.

I asked for Courage…and God gave me obstacles to overcome.

I asked for Love…and God gave me troubled people to help.

I asked for Favours…and God gave me Opportunities.

” I received nothing I wanted…But I received everything I needed.”

 

 

 

Science and Astrology

Those who are intrested

in

 Science and  Astrology

 do read this links

http://scienceandastrology.wordpress.com/2009/05/07/science-astrology/

http://scienceandastrology.wordpress.com/2009/05/07/1science-astrology/

http://scienceandastrology.wordpress.com/2009/05/07/2science-astrology/

http://scienceandastrology.wordpress.com/2009/05/08/3-science-astrology/

http://scienceandastrology.wordpress.com/2009/05/09/4-science-astrology/

http://scienceandastrology.wordpress.com/2009/05/10/5-science-astrology/

http://scienceandastrology.wordpress.com/2009/05/11/6-science-astrology/

http://scienceandastrology.wordpress.com/2009/05/11/7-science-astrology/

Dr.Sudhir Shah

 

 

 

Secrets of unconditional love unraveled

Secrets of unconditional love unraveled

 

London, Apr 12 (ANI): The reason why you immeasurably care for a person without any thought of reward is one of science’s biggest mystery. Now, researchers at Montreal University claim that they have unravelled the secret behind unconditional love.

The research team, led by Professor Mario Beauregard, of Montreal University’s centre for research into neurophysiology and cognition, found that the emotion emerges from a complex interplay between seven separate areas of the brain.

Such brain activity has only limited overlap with the cerebral impulses seen in romantic or sexual love, suggesting it should be seen as an entirely separate emotion.

“Unconditional love, extended to others without exception, is considered to be one of the highest expressions of spirituality. However, nothing has been known regarding its neural underpinnings until now,” The Times quoted Mario, as saying.

To reach the conclusion, the volunteers were recruited on the basis that they had a proven ability to feel strong unconditional love: low-paid assistants looking after people with learning difficulties.

In the study, Mario asked them to evoke feelings of unconditional love and hold them in their minds while they had a magnetic resonance imaging (MRI) scan.

Of the seven brain areas that became active, three were similar to those of romantic love. The others were different, suggesting a separate kind of love.

The findings showed that some of the areas activated when experiencing unconditional love were also involved in releasing dopamine – a chemical deeply involved in sensing pleasure, with rising levels strongly linked to feelings of reward and even euphoria.

In a research paper in an academic journal, Mario said: “The rewarding nature of unconditional love facilitates the creation of strong emotional links. Such robust bonds may critically contribute to the survival of the human species.”

ANI

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in Life style.

 

Congratulations to yahoo india.

 

 

Bhagwad Gita in Astrology..!!..Yes..3.

1st,5th and 9th house - Dharm - Purpose of Life..Article by Dr.Sudhir Shah

Second example is live today: The two richest people in India Mukesh and Anil Ambani, look what they have done…!!!!

In the Gita, Krishn talks about the right dharm, keeps on explaining to all the characters what is the right dharm and karma according to their various situations and characters.

Gita talks about purpose of life: Krishn in His Gita urges Arjun to kill as that is required. But killing is not in Arjun’s 1st house; whose nature is being kind and compassionate, so he says no, “I cannot kill these are all my family, they are my elders”. This is his personality according to his 1st house reflection.

But at this moment there is a different dharma which Krishn explains to him and that is the protection of Dhrama in the world, he is in a situation where he has to destroy evil and so fighting is the dharm to be followed in this moment. This is the gyan given to him (In horoscope 5th house is related with study,gyan,knowledge,intelligency) and he is shown the right direction which he has to follow despite what his basic nature is.

He is shown direction to act upon, what is the truth.
Bhim has no gyan of his own, so looks to Krishn for direction; when told to go kill he goes and completes his dharma.

I am repiting here that There are total only 12 types of people in this world. There are 12 rashis, so 12 types of nature, 12 type of personalities only.

Sanjay who has divya drishtii tells Dhritrashtra about the ongoings at the war maidan. Though Sanjay tells him about the wrongs happening, he prefers to stay blind, as in does not act out his right dharma, he is blind in attachment and greed.

Arjun is confused, why is there no courage to kill? Because his heart is disturbed – 5th house, past karma.

The Pandu brothers, though have everything were not able to enjoy it, why? Because of the 9th house. Because of some bad past karma could not enjoy the present luxuries. They had to leave their palace and live incognito in the jungles for many years.

1st, 5th and 9th housereading can show you the total purpose of your life. Correct reading can tell you what your present life dharma is.

According to your present day bhagya if the correct guidance can be provided, what’s wrong in it?

According to jyotish shashtra you can know ‘what to do when’ to get the maximum satisfaction in your life.

If you believe in Gita you cannot neglate the science of astrology.

Only jyotish shashtra(Astrology) can tell you what your correct dharm is in this birth – Bhagvat Gita’s dharm is explained by the 1st , 5th, & 9th houses of Horoscope in Astrolog.

Cont…next…2nd,6th and 10th house - Arth - Monetary affairs-Richness. Dr.Sudhir Shah

Dr.Sudhir Shah

Bhagwad Gita in Astrology !!..yes..

Bhagawad Gita in Astrology !! -Dr.Sudhir Shah

Bhagwad Gita in Astrology !! - Dr.Sudhir Shah

Bhagwad Gita in Astrology !! - Dr.Sudhir Shah

Bhagwad Gita in Astrology !! - Dr.Sudhir Shah

Yes, Bhagwad Gita in Astrology - Dr.Sudhir Shah

Wait for some time full length article in next post..

till then…

Dr. Sudhir Shah


Fragrance of Truth..

1.  A person that donot believe in Astrology;

     donot need to know what Astrology is – Dr Sudhir Shah

2.  The future, according to me, will be exactly like the past – Dr Sudhir Shah

3.  The future is the reflaction, of your past karma – Dr Sudhir Shah

4.  Live your life in the present – Dr Sudhir Shah

5.  Faith is a Faith – Dr Sudhir Shah

6.  Faith is you do something, not you think something – Dr Sudhir Shah

7.  Doubt develops faith – Dr Sudhir Shah

8.  Who exist !!, The Present – Dr Sudhir Shah

 

 

 

Divorce and Successful Marriage..

 Divorces  :

1st reason : I feel , that the  importance of marriage is overlooked  now a  days. if you truly love your husband /wife ,  adjustments – forgiveness comes very easily and there is no room for rejections.

2nd reason : There  is Non-attachment.  Boys and Girls in India from the last many years have started their relations, during school days and college days. They experience many partners before actually getting married.  Then they eventually realize the mistake that he/she is worst male/female, i have ever had in my life ( after comparison with their last many boy/girl freinds). Being a basic nature of human beings, we have natural tendency to get attached to the person we think is the best. And to the worst boys/girls get married after having so many affairs and if unfortunately they realized after sometime the person they got married is not at par with their x-mates, their attachment factor becomes  negative and nothing then left in their marriage to hold them for decades to come.

3rd reason : There is “NO LOVE” between the partners.

4th reason :  Men is still not ready to Respect the Individuality of  his better-halfher views, her opinions and hence the result is  ‘divorce’.

5th reason : Women are expected to sacrifice, suffer, take patience, forgive, and what not?  But for what?  Only for social status of being married. Nothing else, No appreciation, No love and Affection, No care for them. They are treated as full time unpaid servants. In the name of duty they are being exploited to the core. Welfare of women is only on papers. Even the highly educated and employed girls are suffering untold miseries silently.

6th reason :  Playing Blame games.  As we all can see, men are blaming women for divorce and vice versa.   There is no more understanding  and hence no more love and patience.
If they  understand the concept of marriage very well and its importance there are high chances that one  would not walk out of a marriage. There needs to be sense of responsibility and understanding that whatever happens between a men and a woman in a marriage is entirely due to them and that they should have the maturity to dissolve the differences thus created rather than blaming the other partner. Ego -Ego and Ego….

7th reason : For all kind of bonding,  “Love” is the strongest force which is almost gone from  the Relationships.

8th reason : The Terms  “compromises”  and  “adjustments”  have all flown out of the window. Some compromise in the life every one has to do. You cannot get everything, both the partner has to understand this. otherwise divorce.

other Reasons Are:
 Lack of communicationUnavailability of time to spend with each other.(Main reason), Excessive responsibility of family and bussiness.(Money-Money-money mantra)
Doubting and quarelling nature leads to dissatisfaction.  People start forgetting the ethics and moral values of relationships in the life. Loss of credibility, trust and attachment between the partners.  Demand of dowry from bride groom’s family leads to unhappiness and distractions.(Now a days dowry is less ) Mismatching of partners creates sorrow, arguments and clashes. hence ultimatelly divorce.


Love  stands for endurance, acceptance, respect, regard, warmth, help, moral support, emotional support and above all ,  in love you  are ought to take hurt  not give.

My final conclusion of  33  years of experience as a Councillor : I can say,

(1) Remember money part is not important, but “Love ” is more important to a women.

(2) “Give Respect Take Respect ” is the ‘ Master key ‘ for Successful Marriage.

(3) Successful  Marriage  stands on  Truth,  Joy , Love  &  Trust .

(4) In marriage : M    stands for Merging – આત્મસમર્પણ

                                         A    stands for Ambition – મહત્વકાંક્ષા

                                         R    stands for Respect – સનમાન

                                         R    stands for Response – આવકાર (સ્વાગત)

                                          I    stands for Intimacy – ગાઢ એક્યતા

                                         A    stands for Assurance  – વિશ્વાસ

                                         G    stands for Gaiety – આનંદ

                                         E    stands for Eternity – શાસ્વતા

if you follow and respect the above meaning of  MARRIAGE you are Successful in Marriage.

(5) Last but not the list, my favourite slogan : Time + Understanding + Situation = Satisfaction. So Spend maximum Time together,  Understand eachother,  and at any Situation bondage is important, so that Marriage is fruitful in satisfaction.

Be happy,

Dr.Sudhir Shah

  

Time (Samay) + Understanding (Samaj) + Situation(Sanjog) = Satisfaction (Santosh)

Time is forever speeding away. Time never halts. As soon as a child is born, we take down the time of birth. He takes birth only at the particular time decided by the Lord Almighty. Once he is born, the speed of time begins its count down towards death. Time is supreme. Time is ahead in every way.

Nothing can be got before or after time. We receive every thing only at the right time. Picking up the right moment and making right use of time is called the art of understanding. The person who makes use of all understanding at every moment (Time) is called lucky. As our every decision is dependent on the amount of understanding we use in every moment it becomes very important to make the right use of it.

When one can walk along with time; taking decisions on time with understanding; and also behave with understanding;  then I can say without doubt that the situation has come. Situations build man, they give shape to man. They can take a man to depths of defeat as also to the peak of success.

Waiting is hidden in time. Time makes a man wait. Can we ever get any thing before time? Never. In fact it is important to get everything on Time; so becomes necessary to recognize the right Time. That is why I say, “Hard work, done on recognizing the correct Time never fails”.
This correct Time means Fate;  to act with it is called hard work;  also important is to combine hard work with the right understanding. When a Situation arises due to good Fate; the correct direction, true act, correct decision, done with correct understanding will give total satisfaction.

Time itself gives rise to situations. Time is forever with us, day and night, like a shadow. As time is so important it becomes necessary to note the correct birth time of a child. In the science of astrology; readers remember always to take down the birth date, time, place for the record. Without these three important information a horoscope cannot be made. What is a horoscope, we will discuss some other time. At present I am discussing only Time + Understanding + Situation = Satisfaction.

Time never waits for anyone; it walks non stop. Over and over again we hear the words – Time flew away. Constantly 24 hours, the clock points us the present time; also reminds us of all time that has already passed away. Even a dead clock shows the correct time twice every day.

No one can compete with time. The entire universe has to wait for time. Waiting for some one, the sweet and sour memories are forgotten because of the blessing of time.

An astrologer, Nestrodomas, 400 years ago had forecasted the happenings with his intuitions for the coming 400-500 years. He can only tell us and caution us about the happenings. Whatever has to happen will occur in the exact time. But it does give us deliverance in the form of inference; ie we get the time to think before taking decisions and leaping into some situation.

“This should happen at this time” or “This will happen at this time” or “Take care at this time” or “take advantage of the coming time” or “You missed yesterday’s auspicious time” – Only a good astrologer will be able to tell you all this.
An astrologer is a guide who recognizes the correct time and tells you before hand, helping you to be ready and take advantage of the right situation.

Think for a moment, ‘Am I able to walk along with time in the right way, do I take my decisions after understanding the time period, Am I able to take advantage of the correct time in the right way?’ – Gone time never comes back. What is left with us are only the memories and then a wait for ‘The next time’ when we might be provided with another opportunity. To avoid this delay one can understand the right time earlier through astrology. To be able to not waste any opportunity, proper understanding is required. To know and take advantage of the right time, the right situation should arise; only then one can experience the desired satisfaction.

Understanding would mean to be aware of – “What am I saying?”; to be aware of what you are doing. “ Yes, I know what I am doing and what you are telling me”. To know the meaning of all our actions is to act with understanding. To understand what is being explained, to evaluate, to reach into the deapths of one’s mind is to understand.

Even elderly people can be compared to a small child when they lack the understanding. A non understanding person can also be compared to a donkey; as he lacks the required understanding. Another type of understanding which depicts an aggressive and proud nature is , “What do you think of yourself, I will see you”.
Another type of understanding would be in the form of confession or a repentance,
“Yes, I live in whatever way God keeps me; I may have committed some sins in the past births, so have to go through this misery”.

In both situations a different type of understanding is hidden; but understanding is there.

Understanding works in different ways. To get the right meanings one has to do meaningful evaluations and then come to conclusions.

Understanding has a lot of ………. Hidden in it. It can take a man very deep he could become so deeply immersed in his thoughts that out of the concentration some useful inventions come in this world. All scientists are the out come of understanding. They have the capacity to understand some things in particular ways so come out with inventions for the benefit of society.

What someone has said, if it is evaluated with the right understanding, only then some permissions are given.

Understanding comes slowly. A new born baby cannot speak.. to be able to express its desires or wants it can only cry out. It cannot say it is hungry and wants milk. The mother understands its language and comforts him. That is the mothers understanding. The child has the understanding to only cry for whatever it needs.. it explains through a code language. It is also understanding because of which a code or signal can be understood.

An incident which takes shape due to time and understanding is called a situation. Situation has to be respected.situations can sometimes pressurize a person; other times gives satisfaction and we feel grateful to the situation. They also heal our wounds, as also build up and shape our personalities in better ways. Situations have the power to either lift us up or take us to the lower depths.
According to our needs the situation gives or takes away.
One can also be deceived by situations.
Situations are powerful as they hold time, fate, deeds, understanding of hard work.
If fate and hard work can be understood and explained on time – it is only through the science of astrology; through an experienced astrologer.

 

 

Dr.Sudhir Shah

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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