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Solar Eclipse – Surya Grahan 22-7-2009(Part-2)

Dr.Sudhir Shah - Solar Eclipse....

સુર્ય ગ્રહણ ખગોલિય ઘટના છે , આ ઘટનાઓ ની અસર દેશ-દુનીયા-પ્રદેશ પર થાય છે જેને “મેદનીય જ્યોતિષ “માં ગણતરીમાં લેવાય છે.  વ્યકતીગત ગણતરી  “હોરા જ્યોતિષ “માં લેવાય છે. સામાન્યરીતે ગ્રહણની અસર વ્યકતીગત હોતી નથી છતાં સંશોધન કરવું જરુરી છે. વધુમાં સુર્યરાશિને સાયન અને ચંદ્રરાશિને નિરયન પધ્ધ્તીકહે છે. તારીખ  22-જુલાઇ-09 ના થનારા સુર્ય ગ્રહણથી વ્યકતીગત ડરવાની જરુર નથી પરંતુ રાશિ પરત્વે થઇ શકનાર શુભ  ,મિશ્ર, કે અશુભ  ની અસર માં ચંદ્રરાશિ (નિરયન) અનુસાર સંશોધન ને ચકાસવું જરુરી છે માટે સંશોધન ના હેતુથિજ આ વિગતો આપી છે જેની નોંધ લેશો.

ડો.સુધીર શાહ 18.7.2009

Think Positive….

There are no mistakes,

 no coincidences.

All events are blessings

 given to us to learn from.

 

Helping you to stay balanced,

Emotionally and Spiritually

 

Dr.Sudhir Shah

Reputation….

You Can’t build a reputation on

 what you are going to do;

Your reputation built on

 what you have done.

 

Dr.Sudhir Shah

Review : www.zero2dot.org

This is a review

of the website www.zero2dot.org  

as it appears

in the

 Spiritual magazine

 ‘Life Positive’   in the April 2009 issue.

"Zero2Dot" Documentation on spiritual experiences 

This website is based on my book “Zero2dot” ; which is a documentation of my spiritual journey.

 

Review as it appears in the magazine :

 

more details visit :  http://abhashahra.wordpress.com/category/lectures/

Science and Astrology

Those who are intrested

in

 Science and  Astrology

 do read this links

http://scienceandastrology.wordpress.com/2009/05/07/science-astrology/

http://scienceandastrology.wordpress.com/2009/05/07/1science-astrology/

http://scienceandastrology.wordpress.com/2009/05/07/2science-astrology/

http://scienceandastrology.wordpress.com/2009/05/08/3-science-astrology/

http://scienceandastrology.wordpress.com/2009/05/09/4-science-astrology/

http://scienceandastrology.wordpress.com/2009/05/10/5-science-astrology/

http://scienceandastrology.wordpress.com/2009/05/11/6-science-astrology/

http://scienceandastrology.wordpress.com/2009/05/11/7-science-astrology/

Dr.Sudhir Shah

 

 

 

…..Unhappiness…..

One who has turned his life into a bundle of hurts and wounds is going to be the cause of much suffering in the lives of many people around him. Since suffering has become his life’s breath, wherever he goes he will carry the germs of suffering with him. So an unhappy man does not suffer alone, he shares his sorrow with everybody  he comes in contact with. Walking or Sitting, Speaking or Silent, Active or Inactive, he emits and transmits the vibes of unhappiness like nuclear fallout all around him. An unhappy person really adds to the unhappiness of the whole world.

Osho

Allways Remember, we can share with others only that which we have, not what we don’t have.

Dr.Sudhir Shah

 

….Flowers and Thorns….

Life consists of both pleasure and pain, happiness and misery. And it depends on us what we choose to see and take. My own understanding is that if someone sees rightly and loves rose flowers, then soon the thorns on the rosebush will disapper from his sight. Eyes attuned to the beauty and fragrance of the flower don’t take notice of the thorns. Not that the thorns disapper from the bush; they become part and parcel of the grandeur of the roses, and one sees them as something protecting the roses.They are really to protect the flowers, not to hurt anyone.

But if someone sees only thorns he will miss the flowers. He will say, “How can there be any flowers in the midst of so many piercing thorns and thistles?” He cannot even think of flowers where thorns abound, for him thorns became the truth and flowers disappear like dreams.

But for a lover of flowers, thorns become illusory and flowers the truth.

Osho

Possitive people sees roses/flowers, Negative people sees thorns, Confused people not understands anything-just they argue….& trying to apply logic.!!

Dr.Sudhir Shah

………“ Whole “………

It is interesting to know that when you raise your right leg

you are wholly with your right leg,

and

when you raise your left leg

you are completely with the left leg.

In the same way

you have to be whole when you speak,

and

you have to be whole when you are silent.

 

Osho

shout in anger..!! whisper in love..!!

Why do we shout in anger ?

When you argue, do not let your hearts get distant;

do not say words that distance each other.

A saint asked his disciples, ‘Why do we shout in anger ? Why do people shout at each other, when they are upset ?’

Disciples thought for a while; one of them said, ‘Because we lose our calm, we shout for that.’

‘But, why to shout when the other person is just next to you?’ asked the saint. ‘Isn’t it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice ? Why do you shout at a person when you’re angry ?’

Disciples gave some other answers,but none satisfied the saint.

Finally he explained, ‘When two people are angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance, they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other, through that great distance.’

Then the saint asked, ‘What happens when two people fall in love ? They don’t shout at each other, but talk softly, why ? Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is very small….’The saint continued, ‘When they love each other even more, what happens ? They do not speak, only whisper and they get even closer to each other in their love. Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other and that’s all. That is how close two people are, when they love each other.’

Love to all,

Dr.Sudhir Shah

….”Value has a value, only if its value is valued”….

You are Special….you will never lose your value.

 

A well-known speaker started off his seminar by holding up a note of Rupee 1000.

In the room of 350, he asked, “Who would like this Rupee 1000 note ?”

Hands started going up. He said, “I am going to give this note to one of you, but first let me do this.” He proceeded to crumple the note up. He then asked, “Who still wants it?” Still the hands were up in the air. “Well,” he replied, “What if I do this ?” And he dropped it on the ground and started to grind it into the floor with his shoe. He picked it up. Now all crumpled and dirty. “Now who still wants it ?”

Still the hands went into the air.

My friends, you have all learned a very valuable lesson.

No matter what I did to the money, you still wanted it, because it did not decrease in value. It was still worth Rupee 1000/- . Many times in our lives, we are dropped, crumpled, and ground into the dirt by the decisions we make and the circumstances that come our way. We feel as though we are worthless.

But no matter what has happened or what will happen, you will never lose your value. You are special. Don’t ever forget it !  Never let yesterday’s disappointments overshadow tomorrow’s dreams. Believe in yourself.

“Value has a value, only if its value is valued”

 

Dr.Sudhir Shah

Is this a ..Tax Structure in India…!!

One of our reader has send me the email :  subject : Tax Structure in India.

— On Thu, 9/4/09, Shah, Jay (MF India) <jay.shah@mfglobal.in> wrote:

just read , understand and enjoy.

 1) Qus. : What are you doing?
      Ans. : Business.   
      Tax :  PAY PROFESSIONAL TAX !!

 2) Qus. : What are you doing in Business?
       Ans. : Selling the Goods.   
       Tax : PAY SALES TAX  !!

 3) Qus. : From where are you getting Goods?
       Ans. : From other State/Abroad
       Tax : PAY CENTRAL SALES TAX, CUSTOM DUTY & OCTROI !!
 
  4) Qus. : What are you getting in Selling Goods?
       Ans. : Profit.  
       Tax : PAY INCOME TAX !!

 5)  Qus. : How do you distribute profit ?
       Ans : By way of dividend
       Tax : Pay dividend distribution Tax !!

 6) Qus. : Where you Manufacturing the Goods?
       Ans. : Factory. 
       Tax : PAY EXCISE DUTY !!

 7) Qus. : Do you have Office / Warehouse/ Factory?
       Ans. : Yes 
       Tax : PAY MUNICIPAL & FIRE TAX !!

 8)  Qus. : Do you have Staff?
        Ans. : Yes   
       Tax : PAY STAFF PROFESSIONAL TAX  !!

 9) Qus. : Doing business in Millions?
       Ans. : Yes 
       Tax : PAY TURNOVER TAX !!
       Ans : No 
       Tax : Then pay Minimum Alternate Tax !!

10) Qus. : Are you taking out over 25,000 Cash from Bank ?
         Ans. : Yes, for Salary.  
         Tax : PAY CASH HANDLING TAX  !!

11) Qus.: Where are you taking your client for Lunch & Dinner?
       Ans. : Hotel  
       Tax : PAY FOOD & ENTERTAINMENT TAX !!

12) Qus. : Are you going Out of Station for Business?
        Ans. : Yes
        Tax  : PAY FRINGE BENEFIT TAX  !!

13) Qus.: Have you taken or given any Service/s?
        Ans. : Yes 
        Tax : PAY SERVICE TAX !!
 
14) Qus.: How come you got such a Big Amount?
        Ans. : Gift on birthday. 
        Tax : PAY GIFT TAX  !!

15) Qus.: Do you have any Wealth?
        Ans. : Yes  
        Tax : PAY WEALTH TAX !!

16) Qus.: To reduce Tension, for entertainment, where are you going?
        Ans. : Cinema or Resort.  
        Tax : PAY ENTERTAINMENT TAX !!

17) Qus.: Have you purchased House?
        Ans. : Yes 
        Tax : PAY STAMP DUTY & REGISTRATION FEE !!

 

18) Qus.: How you Travel?
        Ans. : Bus 
        Tax : PAY SURCHARGE !!

19) Qus.: Any Additional Tax?
         Ans. : Yes 
         Tax :  PAY EDUCATIONAL, ADDITIONAL EDUCATIONAL & SURCHARGE ON   ALL THECENTRAL GOVT.’s TAX !!!

20) Qus.: Delayed any time Paying Any Tax?
         Ans. : Yes 
         Tax : PAY INTEREST & PENALTY !!

 

21) Qus.: INDIAN :: can i die now??
         Ans :: wait.
Tax :  we are about to launch the funeral tax  !!!!!!!!!!!

 

 

 

 

 

  Read & Enjoy – Be happy in any Situation.
Posted By : Dr.Sudhir Shah
 

Bhagwad Gita in Astrology..!!..Yes..3.

1st,5th and 9th house - Dharm - Purpose of Life..Article by Dr.Sudhir Shah

Second example is live today: The two richest people in India Mukesh and Anil Ambani, look what they have done…!!!!

In the Gita, Krishn talks about the right dharm, keeps on explaining to all the characters what is the right dharm and karma according to their various situations and characters.

Gita talks about purpose of life: Krishn in His Gita urges Arjun to kill as that is required. But killing is not in Arjun’s 1st house; whose nature is being kind and compassionate, so he says no, “I cannot kill these are all my family, they are my elders”. This is his personality according to his 1st house reflection.

But at this moment there is a different dharma which Krishn explains to him and that is the protection of Dhrama in the world, he is in a situation where he has to destroy evil and so fighting is the dharm to be followed in this moment. This is the gyan given to him (In horoscope 5th house is related with study,gyan,knowledge,intelligency) and he is shown the right direction which he has to follow despite what his basic nature is.

He is shown direction to act upon, what is the truth.
Bhim has no gyan of his own, so looks to Krishn for direction; when told to go kill he goes and completes his dharma.

I am repiting here that There are total only 12 types of people in this world. There are 12 rashis, so 12 types of nature, 12 type of personalities only.

Sanjay who has divya drishtii tells Dhritrashtra about the ongoings at the war maidan. Though Sanjay tells him about the wrongs happening, he prefers to stay blind, as in does not act out his right dharma, he is blind in attachment and greed.

Arjun is confused, why is there no courage to kill? Because his heart is disturbed – 5th house, past karma.

The Pandu brothers, though have everything were not able to enjoy it, why? Because of the 9th house. Because of some bad past karma could not enjoy the present luxuries. They had to leave their palace and live incognito in the jungles for many years.

1st, 5th and 9th housereading can show you the total purpose of your life. Correct reading can tell you what your present life dharma is.

According to your present day bhagya if the correct guidance can be provided, what’s wrong in it?

According to jyotish shashtra you can know ‘what to do when’ to get the maximum satisfaction in your life.

If you believe in Gita you cannot neglate the science of astrology.

Only jyotish shashtra(Astrology) can tell you what your correct dharm is in this birth – Bhagvat Gita’s dharm is explained by the 1st , 5th, & 9th houses of Horoscope in Astrolog.

Cont…next…2nd,6th and 10th house - Arth - Monetary affairs-Richness. Dr.Sudhir Shah

Dr.Sudhir Shah

BMS = YMT

Body-Mind-Soul = Yantra-Mantra-Tantra

Coming soon……Full detail Article 

 on

Body-Mind-Soul = Yantra-Mantra-Tantra

Dr.Sudhir Shah

Bhagwad Gita in Astrology..!!..Yes..2.

One must act towards his Dharm (duty-action) to full fill his purpose of life..
A person should not waste time and energy in doing karmas which will not give him the required results. What ever you have done in past birth or past karma is the reflection in today’s birth.

One can easily find out what his purpose of life is in this birth, by reading of the 1+5+9 house in astrology.

I am repeating this, 1+5+9 house in astrology = dharm in Gita, known as the reading in astrology done for understanding the purpose of this life.

If, in these three houses you are able to read perfectly you will know the purpose of your birth in this life. Once that is open you can act upon it and find total satisfaction in life; it can be called living the Gita, as you will be living your life on your dharma, which you will know through the reading of your 1, 5, 9 house in the birth chart, which is the basic teaching of Gita.

Out of the total 18 chapters in Gita, 4 ½ chapters (One fourth of gita) can be understood through the 1, 5, 9 house in astrology.

Any person who finds the purpose of his birth and walks upon it finds direction. Unfortunately it does not happen that easily; as is seen that many even after being shown the correct direction are not able to walk upon what is right dharma for them in this birth.

They can be compared to the characters Dhritrashtra and
Duryodhan;
one is born blind; the other chooses to be blind
. Both are driven by their egos and greed.

In the Mahabharat, Krishn, who is God Himself, tries to show them their Dharma, and explains what they should be doing. The guru is Krishn Himself in the Gita and in the astrology, 5th and 9th house karak grah is also guru (i.e. Jupiter).

This bad karma can only be explained with the theory that may be their bhagya is so bad, they chose to remain blind and are driven only by selfishness. In spite of being shown the right direction by none other than God Himself, both are not able to walk upon their right dharma.

They were not able to see beyond power and maya, so do immense injustice to all around. It can be said going blind in power and selfishness. Majority of the people today can be compared to these two characters from Mahabharat as they chose to live life blindly without any desire of trying to know their correct dharma.

Cont…..Dharm-Purpose of Life..

Dr.Sudhir Shah

Bhagwad Gita in Astrology..!!..Yes..1.

Bhagwad Gita in Astrology..!!..yes..-Dr.Sudhir Shah

“Devaki ka athva putra tera sarvanash karega”

(The eighth son of Devki will destroy you)

Was the forecast

about the birth of Krishn on the sacred bhoomi of Mathura.

This one sentence is enough to prove my firm opinion

that Astrology was prevalent prior to Gita,

as Bhavisyavani (forecast) about Krishn’s birth was

already made before He explained the Gita to Arjun.

So here I start first with Astrology.

In Horoscope 1st,5th and 9th house is "Dharm" - Purpose of Life.

There are 12 houses in horoscope and 12 Rashis, so all humans can be categorized within twelve types of personality and twelve types of nature.

In Horoscope the 1st, 5th, 9th house is called as Trikona.
This is related to “Dharma” – The purpose of life.

So the 1st, 5th and 9th house can be understood as ‘Living one’s Dharma in life’, from the Holy Bhagwad Gita.

To be able to fulfill the correct Dharma in one’s life, one must first know,
What is the purpose of life?
Why I am on this earth? What actions, karmas have I to complete on this earth?

This deep understanding about one’s inner self can be read from the horoscope.

The Purpose of life can be easily understood through 1st, 5th and 9th house of the horoscope.
For satisfaction from the actions performed each day, one must first know why he is here!!

1-5-9 house is equivalent to Dharma in Gita; the meaning of
Gita is Dharma in action which again is the basic purpose of life.

The 1st house – in a person’s horoscope tells us
about his nature, personality and mind; Prakriti,
Aastitva,Dekhav, Aakruti, Mun.

It tells us what a person is, how he will look, what his
structure will be, what is his inner deep true character..

5th house – Pancham Trikon:
Tells us about Children, knowledge, gambling, courage, prosperity, mind, heart, past good deeds, past karmas – Santan, Vidya, Satta, Sahas, Vaibhav,Intelligent- Buddhi, (Heart) Hriday, Purva punya, Past karmas.
This 5th sthan’s karak grah is Jupiter-guru.

9th house – is counted as this birth’s bhagya sthan in astrology. In this house one can know the Dharm, bhagya, tatva gyan, Bhagya-Naseeb-Takdir.
teerth yatra, guru or pita of the person. This 9th sthan’s karak grah is Jupiter-Guru..

5th house represents “last birth” and 9th house is the “present birth”. So what actions you have done in the past birth that reflection you will find in this birth.

Cont….

Dr.Sudhir Shah

…….Valentine’s day…….Dr.Sudhir Shah

વેલેન્ટાઇન્સ ડે 

શ્રેષ્ઠ અદ��ુત સંદેશ

We win,  Valentine’s day Message contest

organized  by  Mumbai Samachar on 14th February 2002. 

Our message wins  at  “Shresth Adabuut Sandesh” –  ” શ્રેષ્ઠ અદભુત સંદેશ “

More detail visit  this link  :  https://drsudhirshah.wordpress.com/photography/gallery4/ 

or visit Gallery..4.

Dr.Sudhir Shah 

Bhagwad Gita in Astrology !!..yes..

Bhagawad Gita in Astrology !! -Dr.Sudhir Shah

Bhagwad Gita in Astrology !! - Dr.Sudhir Shah

Bhagwad Gita in Astrology !! - Dr.Sudhir Shah

Bhagwad Gita in Astrology !! - Dr.Sudhir Shah

Yes, Bhagwad Gita in Astrology - Dr.Sudhir Shah

Wait for some time full length article in next post..

till then…

Dr. Sudhir Shah


Medical Astrology…2

astromedical by Dr.Sudhir Shah

Astromedical Chart — easy to understand.

12 Parts of the Body , 12 Division of  Astrological Sign , from head to feet…Aries to Pisces….and  the area of  Disease.

Dr. Sudhir Shah

Moon Sign, Sun Sign and Animal Sign

In India, Hindus believe in the Moon Signs, in Western Country they believe in the Sun Signs. In China, the Chinese people believe in Animal Signs.

In the Hindu system of Astrology (Nirayan) Moon Stays in One (Sign) rashi for 2 and a half days. In Western System of Astrology (Sayan) The Sun stays in one rashi (Sign) for one Month and in China, Chinese System of Astrology Animal Stays in one raashi (Sign) for one Year. So to complete one full Zodiac Signs (12 signs X 30 degree = 360 degree) round, Chinese astrology takes 12 Years of time & Sayan System Sun takes One Year to cover all signs and in Niryan System Moon takes 28 to 30 days to cover all signs.

In my belief moon sign is more effective, because thoughts are controlled by the Moon, Mind is controlled by the Moon, your emotional, feelings are attached to Mind. Moon Sign is the key to your emotional aspects. It highlights the thoughts,feelings & emotional needs. Moon represents your emotions. Moon has an effect on the ocean tides, therefore, it is no wonder that since we (human beings) are composed of about Seventy Percent Water, that the moon effects our bodies and our emotions. The moon signs are to be given more importance in Hindu Niryan System of Astrology. Aries Moon Sign & Aries Sun Signs are totally different. Please do not mix it up. Sun represents soul, Moon represents mind. Body represents of all five elements. 

Dr.Sudhir Shah

Fragrance of Truth..

1.  A person that donot believe in Astrology;

     donot need to know what Astrology is – Dr Sudhir Shah

2.  The future, according to me, will be exactly like the past – Dr Sudhir Shah

3.  The future is the reflaction, of your past karma – Dr Sudhir Shah

4.  Live your life in the present – Dr Sudhir Shah

5.  Faith is a Faith – Dr Sudhir Shah

6.  Faith is you do something, not you think something – Dr Sudhir Shah

7.  Doubt develops faith – Dr Sudhir Shah

8.  Who exist !!, The Present – Dr Sudhir Shah

 

 

 

Money Money no, Time Time yes..

He that is of the opinion money will do everything may well be suspectedof doing everything for money. – Benjamin FranklinIf you want to know what God thinks of money, just look at the peoplehe gave it to. -Dorothy ParkerThe easiest way for your children to learn about money isfor you not to have any. -Katharine WhitehornIt is pretty hard to tell what does bring  happiness;poverty and wealth have both failed.- Kin HubbardYou can get more   “Money”, butyou cannot get more ” Time”.- Dr.Sudhir Shah” Time ” is more Valuable than  “Money”. – Dr.Sudhir Shah

03-01-2009

Medical Astrology..by Dr.Sudhir Shah

Gems (Therapy) and Astrology is co-related. In study of AyurvedaHomeopathy study of astrology is very important. Gem stone therapy should not be deemed the practice of medicine and should not be viewed as a substitute for consultations with your physician or other health care professionally, which please note. Gem Therapy is simple in application and with out any risk.

Some Alternative Gems (Secondary) & Their uses:

Amethyst: Amethyst is the Ray of  Spiritual Mastery. This vitalises man’s spiritual nature with life giving power and animates and expands the soul consciousness. This stone is particularly used to cure gout. It is also useful in getting good sleep or pleasant dreams.

Green Ray:  The key note of our planet and colour of nature. The green radiance is essential to our health and happiness. It is the colour of  balance and harmony. Green opens and enlightens the mind and spirit with Wisdom (Yellow Ray) and Truth (Blue Ray), which are the components of green. The fulfillment or completion of the Green rays in its subjective aspect is the man of balanced Mind & the man of peace and Harmony, Sympathy and Generosity.

Amber: Arabs use powdered Amber to prevent miscarriage; they also use it as a medicine for boils, carbuncles, ulcers etc. Epistaxix was treated by putting the Amber in side the nose. For treating Gaitre, the stone was tied round the neck. Burnt Amber ash is useful for woman in labour pains and easy delivery. In very hot countries people keep the Amber in hand to cool their body.

Brown AgateFakirs always use a necklace of this stones. Muslims consider this stone very sacred. In ancient times this stone very used for stopping excessive bleeding in women during periods. Personally I have found this stone very sensitive for dowsing.

Carnelion Or Blood Stone: Used mostly for Haemorrhages from different parts of the body, Acne, & Ulcers.

Crystal:  Crystal was used in ancient times to reduce glandular swelling and to cure eye diseases like glaucoma, conjunctivitis. It was also supposed to strengthen the heart. Personally I have found that a necklace of crystals when worn brings down high temperature and cools the body.

Garnet:   Garnet is useful to cure Eczema, Psoriasis and other skin infections.

A list of some common elements and the gems that might be useful in them is given below. Gems do provide only a helping hand and are not a complete cure in themselves. Regular research has given good positive results; hence some diseases which can be cured through the help of gem cosmic rays are given:

*   Acidity, Digestive disorder, High Blood Pressure – Emerald Gem

  • Common cold, constipation, Bronchitis – Red Corol
  • Insomania – Moon Stone
  • Piles – Red Coral & Pearl
  • Asthma – Blue sapphire
  • Gout (Rheumatism) – Red coral & Amethyst
  • Heart disease – Ruby

Every thing in this universe is composed of Seven Rays of colour. We can see these rays in Rainbow. We can call it MeghadhanushaVIBGYORrays. VIBGYOR RAYS mean combination of  VIOLET,  INDIGO,  BLUE,  GREEN,  YELLOW,  ORANGE  &  RED. Through a Prism one can find or see these COSMIC rays. In the ancient Indian text, the “KURMA PURANA“, the seven planets are to be seen as condensations of the seven cosmic rays. It was understood that on our planet Earth the greatest condensation of the cosmic rays are found in natural gem stones. This chart ( Visit my website as under) shows you the Metal, Chakra, Planets, Cosmic Colour, Primary Gems, Sanskrit Name & Alternative Gems (Secondary Gems) & Zodiac Sign as per Hindu system of astrology.

Note: Gem stone therapy should not be deemed as practise of medicine and should not be viewed as a substitute for consultations with your physician or other health care professional.

Dr.Sudhir Shah

01-01-2009 

Divorce and Successful Marriage..

 Divorces  :

1st reason : I feel , that the  importance of marriage is overlooked  now a  days. if you truly love your husband /wife ,  adjustments – forgiveness comes very easily and there is no room for rejections.

2nd reason : There  is Non-attachment.  Boys and Girls in India from the last many years have started their relations, during school days and college days. They experience many partners before actually getting married.  Then they eventually realize the mistake that he/she is worst male/female, i have ever had in my life ( after comparison with their last many boy/girl freinds). Being a basic nature of human beings, we have natural tendency to get attached to the person we think is the best. And to the worst boys/girls get married after having so many affairs and if unfortunately they realized after sometime the person they got married is not at par with their x-mates, their attachment factor becomes  negative and nothing then left in their marriage to hold them for decades to come.

3rd reason : There is “NO LOVE” between the partners.

4th reason :  Men is still not ready to Respect the Individuality of  his better-halfher views, her opinions and hence the result is  ‘divorce’.

5th reason : Women are expected to sacrifice, suffer, take patience, forgive, and what not?  But for what?  Only for social status of being married. Nothing else, No appreciation, No love and Affection, No care for them. They are treated as full time unpaid servants. In the name of duty they are being exploited to the core. Welfare of women is only on papers. Even the highly educated and employed girls are suffering untold miseries silently.

6th reason :  Playing Blame games.  As we all can see, men are blaming women for divorce and vice versa.   There is no more understanding  and hence no more love and patience.
If they  understand the concept of marriage very well and its importance there are high chances that one  would not walk out of a marriage. There needs to be sense of responsibility and understanding that whatever happens between a men and a woman in a marriage is entirely due to them and that they should have the maturity to dissolve the differences thus created rather than blaming the other partner. Ego -Ego and Ego….

7th reason : For all kind of bonding,  “Love” is the strongest force which is almost gone from  the Relationships.

8th reason : The Terms  “compromises”  and  “adjustments”  have all flown out of the window. Some compromise in the life every one has to do. You cannot get everything, both the partner has to understand this. otherwise divorce.

other Reasons Are:
 Lack of communicationUnavailability of time to spend with each other.(Main reason), Excessive responsibility of family and bussiness.(Money-Money-money mantra)
Doubting and quarelling nature leads to dissatisfaction.  People start forgetting the ethics and moral values of relationships in the life. Loss of credibility, trust and attachment between the partners.  Demand of dowry from bride groom’s family leads to unhappiness and distractions.(Now a days dowry is less ) Mismatching of partners creates sorrow, arguments and clashes. hence ultimatelly divorce.


Love  stands for endurance, acceptance, respect, regard, warmth, help, moral support, emotional support and above all ,  in love you  are ought to take hurt  not give.

My final conclusion of  33  years of experience as a Councillor : I can say,

(1) Remember money part is not important, but “Love ” is more important to a women.

(2) “Give Respect Take Respect ” is the ‘ Master key ‘ for Successful Marriage.

(3) Successful  Marriage  stands on  Truth,  Joy , Love  &  Trust .

(4) In marriage : M    stands for Merging – આત્મસમર્પણ

                                         A    stands for Ambition – મહત્વકાંક્ષા

                                         R    stands for Respect – સનમાન

                                         R    stands for Response – આવકાર (સ્વાગત)

                                          I    stands for Intimacy – ગાઢ એક્યતા

                                         A    stands for Assurance  – વિશ્વાસ

                                         G    stands for Gaiety – આનંદ

                                         E    stands for Eternity – શાસ્વતા

if you follow and respect the above meaning of  MARRIAGE you are Successful in Marriage.

(5) Last but not the list, my favourite slogan : Time + Understanding + Situation = Satisfaction. So Spend maximum Time together,  Understand eachother,  and at any Situation bondage is important, so that Marriage is fruitful in satisfaction.

Be happy,

Dr.Sudhir Shah

  

Time (Samay) + Understanding (Samaj) + Situation(Sanjog) = Satisfaction (Santosh)

Time is forever speeding away. Time never halts. As soon as a child is born, we take down the time of birth. He takes birth only at the particular time decided by the Lord Almighty. Once he is born, the speed of time begins its count down towards death. Time is supreme. Time is ahead in every way.

Nothing can be got before or after time. We receive every thing only at the right time. Picking up the right moment and making right use of time is called the art of understanding. The person who makes use of all understanding at every moment (Time) is called lucky. As our every decision is dependent on the amount of understanding we use in every moment it becomes very important to make the right use of it.

When one can walk along with time; taking decisions on time with understanding; and also behave with understanding;  then I can say without doubt that the situation has come. Situations build man, they give shape to man. They can take a man to depths of defeat as also to the peak of success.

Waiting is hidden in time. Time makes a man wait. Can we ever get any thing before time? Never. In fact it is important to get everything on Time; so becomes necessary to recognize the right Time. That is why I say, “Hard work, done on recognizing the correct Time never fails”.
This correct Time means Fate;  to act with it is called hard work;  also important is to combine hard work with the right understanding. When a Situation arises due to good Fate; the correct direction, true act, correct decision, done with correct understanding will give total satisfaction.

Time itself gives rise to situations. Time is forever with us, day and night, like a shadow. As time is so important it becomes necessary to note the correct birth time of a child. In the science of astrology; readers remember always to take down the birth date, time, place for the record. Without these three important information a horoscope cannot be made. What is a horoscope, we will discuss some other time. At present I am discussing only Time + Understanding + Situation = Satisfaction.

Time never waits for anyone; it walks non stop. Over and over again we hear the words – Time flew away. Constantly 24 hours, the clock points us the present time; also reminds us of all time that has already passed away. Even a dead clock shows the correct time twice every day.

No one can compete with time. The entire universe has to wait for time. Waiting for some one, the sweet and sour memories are forgotten because of the blessing of time.

An astrologer, Nestrodomas, 400 years ago had forecasted the happenings with his intuitions for the coming 400-500 years. He can only tell us and caution us about the happenings. Whatever has to happen will occur in the exact time. But it does give us deliverance in the form of inference; ie we get the time to think before taking decisions and leaping into some situation.

“This should happen at this time” or “This will happen at this time” or “Take care at this time” or “take advantage of the coming time” or “You missed yesterday’s auspicious time” – Only a good astrologer will be able to tell you all this.
An astrologer is a guide who recognizes the correct time and tells you before hand, helping you to be ready and take advantage of the right situation.

Think for a moment, ‘Am I able to walk along with time in the right way, do I take my decisions after understanding the time period, Am I able to take advantage of the correct time in the right way?’ – Gone time never comes back. What is left with us are only the memories and then a wait for ‘The next time’ when we might be provided with another opportunity. To avoid this delay one can understand the right time earlier through astrology. To be able to not waste any opportunity, proper understanding is required. To know and take advantage of the right time, the right situation should arise; only then one can experience the desired satisfaction.

Understanding would mean to be aware of – “What am I saying?”; to be aware of what you are doing. “ Yes, I know what I am doing and what you are telling me”. To know the meaning of all our actions is to act with understanding. To understand what is being explained, to evaluate, to reach into the deapths of one’s mind is to understand.

Even elderly people can be compared to a small child when they lack the understanding. A non understanding person can also be compared to a donkey; as he lacks the required understanding. Another type of understanding which depicts an aggressive and proud nature is , “What do you think of yourself, I will see you”.
Another type of understanding would be in the form of confession or a repentance,
“Yes, I live in whatever way God keeps me; I may have committed some sins in the past births, so have to go through this misery”.

In both situations a different type of understanding is hidden; but understanding is there.

Understanding works in different ways. To get the right meanings one has to do meaningful evaluations and then come to conclusions.

Understanding has a lot of ………. Hidden in it. It can take a man very deep he could become so deeply immersed in his thoughts that out of the concentration some useful inventions come in this world. All scientists are the out come of understanding. They have the capacity to understand some things in particular ways so come out with inventions for the benefit of society.

What someone has said, if it is evaluated with the right understanding, only then some permissions are given.

Understanding comes slowly. A new born baby cannot speak.. to be able to express its desires or wants it can only cry out. It cannot say it is hungry and wants milk. The mother understands its language and comforts him. That is the mothers understanding. The child has the understanding to only cry for whatever it needs.. it explains through a code language. It is also understanding because of which a code or signal can be understood.

An incident which takes shape due to time and understanding is called a situation. Situation has to be respected.situations can sometimes pressurize a person; other times gives satisfaction and we feel grateful to the situation. They also heal our wounds, as also build up and shape our personalities in better ways. Situations have the power to either lift us up or take us to the lower depths.
According to our needs the situation gives or takes away.
One can also be deceived by situations.
Situations are powerful as they hold time, fate, deeds, understanding of hard work.
If fate and hard work can be understood and explained on time – it is only through the science of astrology; through an experienced astrologer.

 

 

Dr.Sudhir Shah

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Aishwarya Rai Abhishek Bachchan horoscope reading by Dr.Sudhir Shah in Chitralekha..

Dr.Sudhir Shah

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